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Why do you feel guilty for not inviting me, you shouldn't, we are not friends, we have not been friends for 15 years.  Sometimes I regret that, but mostly not, life is too short for regrets, and besides, it is not my doing, the no friends thing, I went through something that most adults do not deal with well, why is it that you think a child should have been able to, I did the best I could, and for part of the time I needed to be away from it all, so I found an escape, I am sorry you dis not approve of the escape I chose, and I do not blame you, I was not the best of friends back then, But I would appreciate it if you would stop judging the person I am now by the child I was then, if you do not want to get to know me again then don't.  But do not think that you do.  I know who my friends are, I know those that stood by me, those that helped me even when I did not want the help, and while I am sorry that you are not one of those, that is not by my choosing but yours, so please figure out how to deal with that yourself, and raining your guilt all over me, I do not need it and I do not want it...

Jobs

So I have been job hunting, which were I live is not an easy thing to do.  Unless you are exmilitary with training experience or a techie, there are no jobs around here.  So I have started looking outside of my community, to places where I will have to drive, unless i manage to find a job somewhere that my husband can transfer his job to.  It sucks, there are no jobs anywhere really...

Anyways, just thought I would share, if anyone know of a job in AZ, or around any of the areostat sites that involves a history degree but not teaching let me know, I would sure be interested in checking it out...

Ok, WOW

So yeah, I live in Arizona, and we are burning up around here lately.  People are losing there homes and possessions, they are being forced to flee multiple fires across the state, some that have only burned for days and others that are going on or over a month, some are slow moving and others are going at super speed.  They are not currently effecting me and mine, other than some hazy days around my town, but I am keeping an eye on them, what Arizonian wouldn't.  I have family that has had to evacuate, and places I go to play and relax, places that my family and I frequent are caught in the middle.  But what do I see when I go to the news sites, comments on illegal immigration, hateful posts about God, the state Governor, and those people that have or may still lose almost everything they have worked hard for.  What the HELL is wrong with people now a days.  Since when did a freaking fire have anything to do with what political party the state is.  It is stupid.  The other thing that is really annoying is that these comments are mostly being made by people who do not understand the issues.  I mean seriously, unless you have lived with illegal immigration as part of your daily life it is not something that you can think about in a non abstract way, Hell even people in Tucson and Phoenix do not fully understand what it is like to live in a small town on or close to the border where people, lots of times armed and dangerous people come through your yards and break into your homes.  How is it that someone who has never spent time living with an issue get so bent out of shape about it.  I challenge these people, the ones who want us to throw our borders wide open and let anyone and everyone through to live on the border for just one month, rent a ranch, and see how safe you and your family feel, see how much you enjoy not being able to go outside at night because your home is in the middle of the current drug route and you have a high possibility of getting shot if they see you...  I have no problem what so ever with the people who want to come over here and work and support there families.  People have been doing that for years, and for years it worked just fine, I have a problem with the drugs and gangs and criminals that come over now as well, the cartels, the things that people who do not live here just do not understand.  So really people keep your mouth shut unless you have a valid point to make, one that is based on your own experiences, not what someone else told you.  Next, why is it that God gets blamed for anything that goes wrong, that is just stupid, especially coming from someone who supposedly does not even believe in God.  I mean, if you do not believe in him then why is he is the first thing you think to blame when something does not go your way.  Hello people, use your bloody head before you open your big mouth. 

Anyways, my point in all of this was that a wildfire should not be a political soapbox, who is to blame for it, the person who set it, or let there campfire get out of control.  Not God, not the Governor, or even the President, just the stupid person who should not have played with matches in AZ.  Instead of blaming all the wrong people or using this as another way to spread the HATE, why not just send good thoughts to the people that are being affected by this whole disaster in a very real and personal sense, it certainly can't make anything worse, and gosh it may even mean that you are a good person rather than the hatemongers that you let the world see...

Issues

Why is it that men can never figure out that they should not do certain things.  oh well, whatever, who cares, right.  I have not been having a good few weeks, I have been really depressed, and spending time with my husband while not making it go away does make it feel better some, however he does not seem to care, he is freaked cause I am depressed, but seems to think that he can make it better by leaving, this is not the way to make me better.  when your job calls you on your day off you do not have to say yes everytime.  ever once in a while it would be nice to spend more than 5-6 days a month with my husband, but no...

I know that the next few weeks are going to be hectic, i get that, which is why spending a few days with us would have been a nice thing.  he does not seem to care, so fuck him, right now, just fuck him.  when i need him the most he leaves, thanks a lot hun, nice to know you care.

i am so tired of people telling me what i should feel and that what i do feel is selfish or wrong, they can all just kiss my ass.  for a while i just need to get away from it all, which is just not going to happen because we have one member of the family that is totally selfish and thinks only of themselve, then we have everyone else who just does not care.  it is frustrating.  there are days that i just hate my life, and sadly the last few weeks i have been stuck there.

thanks world, fuck you to...

Sookie...

OMG!!!

 SPOILERS AHEAD!!!

If you have not yet read Charlaine Harris's new Sookie book Dead Reckoning then do not read furthur.

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED, DO NOT BITCH TO ME IF YOU CHOOSE TO CONTINUE READING!!!

SPOILERS ARE PRESENT HERE!!!

I read the new Sookie book last week, I had it finished Tuesday, lol, it only came out Tuesday I know, but I have been waiting.  I Love Eric, he is just the most dreamy character ever written, and yes I know that I will probably sound like a fangirl and I do not care.  Anyways, I have been holding this in for a week, and I have no where else to vent, so here I am...

WHY THE HELL DID SHE BREAK THE BLOOD BOND!!!!

What is going to happen now, after the whole thing with his maker and the fairies do they not deserve a little bit of peace and quiet, from the Two Blondes story it seemed as though everything was going well, but NO, Eric is supposed to marry a queen, someone whom he does not have any wish to marry, so nope, no peace.  I mean could we have not have had just like half a book of Eric and Sookie happy together, would that have been to much to ask for, probably, I guess, it would seem so, It It ANNOYING!!!

I am just so depressed, Eric is the whole reason that I read that series, yeah sure, Sookie is ok, but Eric is my entertainment, and while Sam is a nice enough guy, he is BORING.  I know he is a shapeshifter, but he is safe, I do not want safe, if I did I would write my own story about my life, please do not get me wrong, I love my husband, he is my center, my world, but when I read I want to go to another world for awhile, I just want to visit, you know?  And Sam is like my hubby, he is a great guy, he is caring, and he is stable and always there.  But he is not ERIC!!!  I do not know what I would do if Eric was relegated to an appearance here and there, but not a major role, I would cry if he started moping around like Bill does, poor man/vamp whatever, he has become a bit pathetic, and I am sorry, but Sookie is just not that amazing.  Anita is that amazing, Sookie is not, which is probably why people can relate to her, she is normal, so she can read minds, that does not matter she is the girl next door, and we get to watch her deal with extraordinary circumstances, I love these books, but I need Eric in them, he is the clincher for me.

I hope that Charlaine Harris actually keeps them together, Eric can be ruthless, but he is what Sookie needs, and more importantly, he is what I need. 

lol, selfish I know, ok, I guess that is all for the night, rant done...

Feburary: The Month from Hell

Ok, it has been a long month, anything and everything that can go wrong has.  People have gotten sick and died, and I am hoping that now that it is basically the end of the month, 11pm here, that all of that will be over.


So stressful, and so busy.  Lawyers and doctors and committees, just a ton going on...

I was really intending to vent here tonight, but I am just too tired, so night all.

Friends

Ok, so you know how you had friends and then you realize that maybe you don't, does that make sense at all.  My 10 year High School reunion is coming up in a few months, and it has made me look back, normal I know, but in a lot of ways I am not happy with what it is that I am seeing.  Example, when I got married I invited a friend from high school and work, but when she got married I was not invited.  A whole group of my friends are going on vacation together, which I would not have been able to go to, but it would have been nice to be invited you know.  In high school I was not always the best person to be friends with, I was all over the place, I was watching my dad die before my eyes and learning how to cope with the fact that he would never remember who I was.  Not an easy thing to go thru at any age, but especially hard in the middle of puberty.  I have lost friends, a few have died, and I have gained new ones, but I had a core group of people who I thought would always accept me for who I am, and I am realizing that many of those people are not the people I thought they were.  Last year I apologized for not being a good friend in high school, not something I had to do, but something I wanted to do.  We all tearfully, on my part at least promised to get together, but of course we never have.  and now everyone is getting together, just the crowd, for this upcoming reunion, shocking to me that i was invited to be honest, but hey, most of these people see each other every few weeks anyways, so i do not see what the big deal is, for them, there are a few who live out of state, but the others get together reguarly, i don't know, i did not expect this to hurt so much, to be the outsider with people i have known in some cases 25+ years.  I guess we will see, i may not want to go afterall, and i would probably be making them happy if i didn't.